Growth

In this blog I'm going to talk about how we can deal with the challenges that face us with growth, through this life, past lives and the next level of progression

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Growth can hit us in different ways. For some growth seems to sprint forward with open doors and cascading gold upon every step and for others it may require setback after setback to reach in the end of what is required and needed.

It is easy to look at those with cascading gold and a lifted life with eyes of envy but in reality the envy will again only set you back.

Instead let's look at the whole picture... how often if ever do you know what's going on with someone circumstances? Now from those times how often do you know what goes on behind closed doors? Is there in the end something you say "oh wow I didn't know that?!"

Another way to look at it would be when you, yourself are in a position where you're going through a change or challenge, do you fully tell people around you exactly how you're feeling, what has happened or how you're internalising the challenges that lay at your feet?

So ... before we get to the point where I've depressed you all, let's start to focus on things in a more positive light. How do we do that? Simple - trust! Trust in the universe and what lays ahead of you "well I choose my own fate!" I hear some of you thinking - yes! That's true you do. Everyone here before we arrived would of chose the life in which they're living. A begining and agreed on a date of which to leave. This in itself you won't remember as we're here all to grow. To come from what we are and as a soul grow into a more rounded and spiritual being.

Does this mean we all need to sit meditating 24/7 and wearing yoga pants?! - No! Of course not; However embracing changes and going with the flow can be steps to a more spiritually free and mindful way of living. Not only in this life but the next allowing you to progress up a level.

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What will this growth look like for me?!

This will be different for everyone

Growth can look like but not be limited to

• Recognising your triggers

• Reacting to anger slower

• Letting go of something out of your control

• Embracing new ideas carefully

• Allowing others to speak

• Knowing you're not always right

• Taking control when you normally wouldn't

• Reaching for more than you have

• The need or want to learn

• Allowing others opinions to flow over you

• Looking forward in darkness

• Realising others opinions are their own

• Walking away

• Placing boundaries

• When your triggers aren't triggering

And many more...

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A closer look into some of the bullet points above ...

Recognising your triggers

This is a very big step and one of the first changes you can make towards balancing yourself spiritually. Unfortunately the only way to recognise your triggers is to either truthfully be honest with yourself ... what really gets your goat?

well I'll tell you one of mine! I hate being told I'm wrong ... why? Well I belive it stemed from being called stupid as a young child at school and not getting something right, automatically I was made to feel stupid and so I created a barrier and through this I will try and fight my corner, am extremely stubborn and quick to anger. I have mainly cough come to terms with this and now it doesn't effect me much - learning more to let it go as we cannot always be right and only through our mistakes can we learn, only through our mistakes can we grow.

Other forms of triggers can show up as changing the topic when you're uncomfortable, trying to go to the end of something which would indicate lack of patience with a topic and not being able to sit in the moment or dismissing something without thoughts or consideration.

Then it's time to look into why and how you can address this is a huge step - you've got this!

Reactions (void)

This can cover a few of the signs above, slower to anger, placing in boundaries, walking away, "allowing" others to have a voice, realising where you have no control or very little and these all come learning to react slower.

Having something you normally react to, in a light that seems more negative or pushed; then slowing yourself down to get past somthing will require an inner trust to let things be and flow. Not only with yourself but the universe.

Reactions (present)

Now for the opposite! Taking charge when you normally wouldn't, wanting to learn and grow, reaching for and manifesting for more than you have and starting to embrace new and other peoples ideas carefully

So this is more of an after step but can be worked on before you've finished your void reactions.

When you've realised what you're reacting to somthing brashly and have made sure to create a lack of reactions, allowing an exchange of energy to be pushed but not pushed back by yourself then you can look at working on and pushing yourself forward for things that can help with growth. Ask yourself what do you want? How do you want to get there?

Lastly balance

So the triggers not triggering you any more? Your also reaching for your goals? - good...good!

Let's think back to the start... how are you now feeling about the person who got all their changes, money, sucess and happiness easily? Paved with gold and everything falling into place for them? What even if they're also arrogant with it? Born into it? Think of the influencers that have a wonderful life and have "oh such fun!!"

How do you feel?

Having happiness for the people around you even if you don't have the things yourself allows true inner peace and happiness. Aligning yourself to truly be happy for others even in their potential ignorance of the matters at hand.

You can indeed be poor and happy, rich and sad, scraping by and stressed or well off and on cloud nine! We will never know what people are going through and although money of course helps ease most issues. It is not the source of happiness and not the ending of yours when looking green eyed at another.

Another point of manifestation and manifesting the life in which you wish to have or lead is like attracting like.

"Like attracts like"

Humor me for a moment but picture you're the universe and someone is asking for a good career in the arts or writting a book. So the universe sends them signs and as you do one of them is their friend - they're also interested in writting a book and of course these friends talk anout this in great length.

Through them talking in great length one friend takes the opportunity to write their book and live out of their dreams. You see how the second friend reacts and as they didn't get what they want as they didn't try they're upset, jealous and fed up - ok says the universe they obviously don't want to have sucess writting a book as they're already fed up with it"

So place out into the universe what you wish to give back

Be greatful for any opportunity

Be happy for those around you so as to not reject your own future

Be genuine with your responses

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Above all - listen to your inner monologue of feelings. Work out your triggers and with that you'll be rich even if you're still poor!

Blessed bee!